There is a sentiment around weight loss of “I need to look out for me”, “I need to do something for myself for once”, “I need to put myself first”, you know things like that. And hey, if that empowers someone to push against the resistance in their life and head toward a healtheir path – Great for you!
That sentiment just really doesn’t motivate me. I don’t think I’m the only one.
There is a reason I sacrifice (wisely) for my family: it feels good, and I feel accomplished. I love the concept of “sacrifice” meaning giving up something to get something better or more refined. Some things I give to my family without giving it up or letting it go. “Consecrate” seems to be the right term for that type of giving – the type of giving to my family resources that I also have access to, because I’m part of my familiy too. I need to give love and be loved. It’s a real need. There is power in setting aside my time, talents, energy, money, and love to support ALL the important people in my life – including myself.
I am worthy of support. My husband is worthy of support. My kids are worthy of support. It doesn’t have to be me against the world. That’s a very peaceful thought.
Happy Sunday.